THE DARK SIDE OF ENERGY VAMPIRES
(How to Protect Yourself!)
Ever feel drained around certain people—like they’ve sucked the life right out of you? You might be dealing with an energy vampire, darling. These people don’t need fangs to be dangerous; they feed on your emotional, mental, and even physical energy, leaving you exhausted, anxious, and foggy-headed. But don’t worry—I’ll show you exactly how to spot them and protect yourself!
What Are Energy Vampires & How Do They Drain You?
Energy vampires aren’t just dramatic people or attention-seekers (though they often are). They unconsciously—or sometimes very deliberately—drain the life force from others to fuel themselves.
They can do this by:
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Creating chaos – Constant drama? Non-stop problems? They thrive on your reactions.
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Playing the victim – They always need help, but never seem to improve.
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Using guilt & manipulation – You feel bad saying no? That’s no accident.
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Leaving you exhausted – After spending time with them, you need a nap and a stiff drink.
How to Recognise an Energy Vampire (Signs to Watch For!)
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Your mood crashes when they’re around.
You were fine before they walked in, but now you’re anxious, tired, or irritable.
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You feel guilty setting boundaries.
The moment you try to say no, they make you feel selfish or unreasonable.
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They dominate every conversation.
They’re never interested in
you, only in unloading their problems.
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They drain your energy—physically and emotionally.
Spending time with them feels like running a marathon (without the fitness benefits).
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They stir up drama and negativity.
If there’s peace, they’ll find a way to disrupt it.
If you’re nodding along, congratulations—you’ve identified an energy vampire in your life. Now let’s talk about how to keep them from sinking their fangs into you!
Powerful Protection Tips: Crystals, Spells & Energy Techniques
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Black Tourmaline – The ultimate energy shield! Carry it in your pocket or place it near your front door to block negativity.
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Amethyst – Helps cleanse your energy after an encounter with a vampire.
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Obsidian – Acts like a psychic mirror, reflecting bad vibes away from you.
๐ฅ A SIMPLE ENERGY PROTECTION SPELL
This quick ritual helps seal your aura against unwanted energy.
You’ll need:
โ A black candle (for protection)
โ A pinch of salt (to absorb negativity)
โ A piece of black tourmaline
How to do it:
- Light the candle and place the tourmaline in front of it.
- Sprinkle the salt around the candle in a circle.
- Say:
"My energy is mine alone,
No vampire may drain or own.
Shield me strong, keep me free,
As I will, so mote it be!" - Let the candle burn for at least 10 minutes. Carry the tourmaline with you for protection.
๐ฟ ENERGY-CLEANSING TECHNIQUES
๐ฎ Aura Brushing – Imagine a white light sweeping away any energy that doesn’t belong to you. Use your hands to “brush” yourself off, starting from the top of your head down to your feet.
๐ฎ Salt Baths – Soaking in a bath with sea salt removes any negativity you’ve picked up. If you don’t have a bath, a salt scrub in the shower works just as well.
๐ฎ Cleansing Sprays – A mix of rosemary, saltwater, and a drop of lemon oil makes a powerful DIY cleansing spray. Spritz it around you whenever you need an energy reset. (Or grab a pre-made one from Kerry Kulkens Magic Shop™, darling—I’ve got the good stuff!)
Final Thoughts: Protect Your Energy Like Your Life Depends on It—Because It Does!
Energy vampires will always exist, but you don’t have to be their snack. Recognise them, set boundaries, and use spiritual protection to keep your energy yours.
And if you need extra help? Visit Kerry Kulkens Magic Shop™ for black tourmaline, spell candles, and cleansing sprays—all the tools you need to keep those vampires at bay!
Stay strong, stay protected, and most importantly—believe in yourself
