February Spells: The Month of Love
Spells for February:
The Month of Love and Connection
By Kerry Kulkens
Ah, February—the month when the energy of love fills the air. With Valentine’s Day at its heart, this is the perfect time to focus on spells that enhance relationships, attract romance, or strengthen self-love. Whether you’re hoping to find your soulmate, rekindle passion, or simply nurture the most important relationship of all—the one with yourself—these spells will help you align with the loving energy of the month.
Attraction Spell
This spell is designed to draw love or deepen an existing connection.
You will need:
- A pink candle (for romance)
- A rose quartz crystal
- A piece of red thread
Instructions:
- Light the pink candle and hold the rose quartz in your hands, focusing on the kind of love you wish to invite into your life.
- Visualise this love surrounding you in warm, glowing energy.
- Tie the red thread around the rose quartz, saying:
"By this flame and this thread, Love’s light around me is spread. A partner true, a bond so tight, Enter my life with pure delight." - Keep the rose quartz with you, or place it beside your bed.
Rekindling Passion Spell
Perfect for those in relationships who want to reignite the spark of love and passion.
You will need:
- Two red candles
- A piece of paper and a pen
- A small dish or fireproof bowl
Instructions:
- Write your and your partner’s names on the piece of paper, drawing a heart around them.
- Place the red candles side by side, lighting them to represent your bond.
- Say:
"Flames of passion burn anew and strengthen the bond between us two. Love and desire, strong and free, Rekindle the fire for [Partner’s Name] and me." - Burn the paper in the fireproof dish, imagining your love growing more assertive.
- Let the candles burn for a few minutes before extinguishing them together.
Self-Love Ritual
February isn’t just about romantic love—it’s also a time to celebrate and nurture yourself.
You will need:
- A white candle (for purity)
- A small bowl of water with rose petals
- A mirror
Instructions:
- Light the white candle and gaze into the mirror, looking into your eyes with compassion and admiration.
- Say:
"I honour myself, my heart, my soul, Self-love within, I am whole. Each day, I grow and shine. My love for me is pure and divine." - Dip your fingers into the water bowl and sprinkle it over yourself as a blessing.
- Repeat this ritual whenever you need a reminder of your worth.
Tips for February Magic
- Best Days for Love Magic: Fridays (ruled by Venus, the planet of love).
- Colours to Incorporate: Pink for affection, red for passion, and white for purity.
- Crystals to Work With: Rose quartz for love, garnet for passion, and moonstone for emotional balance.
This February, let the magic of love guide your spells and remember that the most potent ingredient in any ritual is your own belief and intention. Wishing you a month filled with romance, joy, and connection.
