Energy Matters:

 Preparing Yourself for a Psychic Reading

In the world of spiritual work, energy is not just important—it’s everything. Before you sit down for a psychic reading, whether it’s with me or any other spiritual practitioner, your energy, mindset, and openness can shape the entire experience. It’s a two-way connection—your energy meets mine, and together, we create a sacred space for insight and healing.

But let me be clear: if you're walking through the door with anger in your heart, defensiveness in your body language, or a chip on your shoulder, then you're not truly ready to receive a reading. And no psychic, no matter how gifted, can give you a clear message through the fog of hostility.

It’s a Reading, Not a Fight

I say this with love and deep respect for every soul that seeks my guidance: if you come in looking for a fight, that’s exactly what you’ll find. Not because I’ll fight you back (I won’t), but because the energy in the room becomes too chaotic for clear messages to come through.

I’ve been reading professionally for decades—long before Google reviews existed—and I’ve seen it all. Some people walk in guarded and sceptical, which is perfectly fine. But others come in almost daring me to prove something. They sit with crossed arms, a closed heart, and a face that says, “This better be good.” That kind of energy creates a wall so thick, even the most loving messages from Spirit bounce right off.

And sadly, when those people leave dissatisfied—because they weren’t open to begin with—they sometimes lash out with harsh words or negative reviews. That’s not just disheartening to a practitioner like me, who has devoted her life to helping others—it also robs them of the insight they could have received if only they had been willing.

Psychic Work Isn’t Vending Machine Magic

A psychic reading is not a transaction where you throw in a coin and get a sugar-coated answer. It’s a spiritual collaboration. I open myself up to energies beyond the veil—your guides, your ancestors, the vibrations around your life.

But your energy? That’s part of the equation too. If you arrive flustered, furious, or flat-out closed off, it’s like trying to tune into a radio station during a thunderstorm. All I’ll hear is static. And the messages that do come through may be clouded, confusing, or difficult to interpret—because the energy in the room is cluttered with resistance.

How to Align Your Energy Before a Reading

You don’t have to come into a reading with your life perfectly sorted. Some of the most powerful readings I’ve ever given have been to people in deep grief, heartbreak, or uncertainty. But what they did bring was a willingness to receive. That’s all it takes.

Here are a few ways you can prepare yourself before your session:

🌿 Ground Yourself – Sit in silence for five minutes. Feel your feet connect to the Earth. Breathe in deeply, exhale slowly, and release any tension.

🕯️ Light a Candle or Incense – White for clarity, lavender for peace, or sandalwood for spiritual opening. Create a moment of intention.

🙏 Say a Prayer or Affirmation – Something simple like: “I am open to guidance and clarity. I allow only love and truth into this space.”

💧 Drink Water – Stay hydrated. Energy flows more freely when your body is nourished and centred.

🧘‍♀️ Let Go of Expectations – Don’t come in hoping to hear exactly what you want to hear. Come in hoping to hear what you need to hear. There’s a difference.

You Get What You’re Ready For

I understand that emotions run high. Life is messy, and sometimes, when people are hurting, they bring that hurt into the reading room. But if you walk in determined to be disappointed—or ready to challenge every word—you’ll walk out with exactly what you came looking for: more frustration.

That’s not because the reading was wrong, but because your energy didn’t allow it to land.

Psychic readings are mirrors. They reflect not just your situation, but your readiness to receive insight. If you show up with a guarded heart and a combative attitude, you block the very guidance you’re seeking.

But if you come with a little softness—even amidst your pain—and a willingness to listen, Spirit can move mountains in that session.